{"id":21461,"date":"2023-03-22T12:38:16","date_gmt":"2023-03-22T10:38:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.oanagrecea.ro\/pretul-platit-pentru-constiinta-de-sine\/"},"modified":"2026-08-07T13:27:37","modified_gmt":"2026-08-07T10:27:37","slug":"pretul-platit-pentru-constiinta-de-sine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.oanagrecea.ro\/en\/pretul-platit-pentru-constiinta-de-sine\/","title":{"rendered":"Pre\u021bul pl\u0103tit pentru con\u0219tiin\u021ba de sine"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>de Oana Grecea<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 e\u0219ti preg\u0103tit s\u0103 faci o introspec\u021bie a propriei persoane, s\u0103-\u021bi pui \u00eentreb\u0103ri (poate dureroase) despre via\u021ba pe care o tr\u0103ie\u0219ti, cite\u0219te <a href=\"http:\/\/www.humanitas.ro\/humanitas-fiction\/plansul-lui-nietzsche\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u201d<strong><em>Pl\u00e2nsul lui Nietzche<\/em><\/strong>\u201d de Irvin D. Yalom<\/a>. De fapt, te \u00eendemn s\u0103 cite\u0219ti \u0219i dac\u0103 nu vrei s\u0103 afli r\u0103spunsuri despre tine, pentru c\u0103 este o carte bine scris\u0103 \u0219i porne\u0219te de la fapte \u0219i personaje reale \u0219i este uimitor s\u0103 afli cum g\u00e2ndeau oamenii prin anii 1880.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Am fost corect\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de mine \u0219i nu am vizionat filmul (ap\u0103rut \u00een 2007) dec\u00e2t dup\u0103 terminarea volumului. Nu vei \u00een\u021belege mai mult din film dec\u00e2t din carte, pentru c\u0103, oric\u00e2t de bine ecranizat, nu poate surprinde nua\u021bele care se g\u0103sesc \u00een cuvinte. \u201d<em>Pentru a descoperi adev\u0103rul, cineva trebuie s\u0103 se cunoasc\u0103 mai \u00eent\u00e2i complet pe sine \u00eensu\u0219i<\/em>\u201d&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>Din discu\u021biile \u0219i fr\u0103m\u00e2nt\u0103rile doctorului Joseph Breuer \u2013 \u00eentemeietorul psihoterapiei \u2013 cu Friedrich Nietzsche, am notat c\u00e2teva pasaje cu care sunt de-acord sau care m\u0103 intrig\u0103 \u00een m\u0103sura \u00een care trebuie s\u0103-mi pun \u0219i s\u0103 r\u0103spund la multe \u00eentreb\u0103ri&#8230;.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<h3>Citate din carte<\/h3>\n<li>\u201d<em>Am uitat de ce tr\u0103iesc \u2013 ce rost au toate. Sunt preocupat de faptul c\u0103 \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nesc<\/em>\u201d (!!)<\/li>\n<li>\u201d<em>Disperarea este pre\u021bul pe care \u00eel pl\u0103te\u0219ti pentru con\u0219tiin\u021ba de sine. Studia\u021bi cu aten\u021bie via\u021ba \u0219i ve\u021bi afla \u00eentotdeauna disperare<\/em>\u201d (????)<\/li>\n<li>\u201d<em>Rela\u021biile sexuale nu se deosebesc prin nimic de alte rela\u021bii, c\u0103ci ele presupun o lupt\u0103 pentru putere. Dorin\u021ba sexual\u0103 este, la baz\u0103, dorin\u021ba de a domina total mintea \u0219i trupul celuilalt<\/em>\u201d (!??).<\/li>\n<li><em>Spiritul unui om este construit din op\u021biunile sale!<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>\u0218tiu cum este s\u0103-mi fie sufletul plin de cineva pe care \u00eel iubesc \u0219i \u00eel ur\u0103sc!<\/em> \u2013 c\u00e2t de frumos spus&#8230;<\/li>\n<li><em>\u201dFemeia frumoas\u0103 are mai mult\u0103 putere dac\u0103 este dorit\u0103 de al\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bi<\/em>\u201d. (oare?!)<\/li>\n<li><em>\u201dSuntem \u00eendr\u0103gosti\u021bi mai mult de dorin\u021b\u0103 dec\u00e2t de fiin\u021ba dorit\u0103!\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<li>\u201d<em>Pentru fiecare femeie frumoas\u0103 exist\u0103 un biet b\u0103rbat care a obosit s-o mai reguleze<\/em>\u201d ( :)) ).<\/li>\n<li>\u201d<em>O parte a problemei este c\u0103 am at\u00e2tea g\u00e2nduri despre sex vis\u00e2nd o alt\u0103 femeie, \u00eenc\u00e2t m\u0103 simt vinovat s\u0103-mi ating nevasta<\/em>\u201d. (trist, dar cred c\u0103 poate fi adev\u0103rat)<\/li>\n<li><em>La nunta noastr\u0103, c\u00e2nd am spus Da \u00een fa\u021ba preotului, am spus Nu altor alegeri<\/em>. \u2013 trist, dar adev\u0103rat, nu \u0219tim s\u0103 ne p\u0103str\u0103m op\u021biunile&#8230;<\/li>\n<li><em>Trebuie s\u0103 tr\u0103im ca \u0219i cum am fi liberi<\/em>.<\/li>\n<li>Stresul este emo\u021bie \u00een\u0103bu\u0219it\u0103<\/li>\n<li>Orice nu m\u0103 ucide m\u0103 face mai puternic.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<li>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.oanagrecea.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/plansul-lui-nietzsche-bis.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8172\" src=\"https:\/\/www.oanagrecea.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/plansul-lui-nietzsche-bis.jpg\" alt=\"\"><\/a><\/li>\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Am \u00eencercat s\u0103 vizionez \u0219i filmul cu pixul \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103 (la fel cum fac cu toate c\u0103r\u021bile), astfel c\u0103 am notat \u0219i de aici c\u00e2teva ceva:<\/p>\n<p>\u201d<em>Ai gustat vreodat\u0103 durerea dragostei?<\/em>\u201d \u2013 a gusta presupune ceva pl\u0103cut, dar c\u00e2nd e vorba de durere, devine ceva nepl\u0103cut&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\u201d<em>Am nevoie de pasiune! Am nevoie de magie! Viat\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 pasiune, f\u0103r\u0103 mister? Cine poate tr\u0103i o asfel de via\u021b\u0103?<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201dA tr\u0103i \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103 este periculos\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\u201dVindecare prin conversa\u021bie\u201d \u2013 asta cred c\u0103 este metoda mea favorit\u0103 de terapie.<\/p>\n<p>\u201d<em>Trebuia s\u0103 fiu EU, \u00eenainte de a fi NOI!<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>PS: refuz s\u0103 pun un titlu comercial doar pentru a atrage cititori. Cei care chiar consult\u0103 recenzii \u00eenainte de a cump\u0103ra o carte vor g\u0103si probabil postul \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 subterfugii de marketing&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dac\u0103 e\u0219ti preg\u0103tit s\u0103 faci o introspec\u021bie a propriei persoane, s\u0103-\u021bi pui \u00eentreb\u0103ri (poate dureroase) despre via\u021ba pe care o tr\u0103ie\u0219ti, cite\u0219te \u201dPl\u00e2nsul lui Nietzche\u201d de Irvin D. Yalom. De fapt, te \u00eendemn s\u0103 cite\u0219ti \u0219i dac\u0103 nu vrei s\u0103 afli r\u0103spunsuri despre tine, pentru c\u0103 este o carte bine scris\u0103 \u0219i porne\u0219te de la fapte \u0219i personaje reale \u0219i este uimitor s\u0103 afli cum g\u00e2ndeau oamenii prin anii 1880.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":24994,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[931],"tags":[1333,489,248,1270],"class_list":["post-21461","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-books-recenzii-carti-povesti","tag-autocunoastere","tag-dezvoltare-personala","tag-psihologie","tag-reflectie"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oanagrecea.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21461","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oanagrecea.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oanagrecea.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oanagrecea.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oanagrecea.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21461"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.oanagrecea.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21461\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":25506,"href":"https:\/\/www.oanagrecea.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21461\/revisions\/25506"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oanagrecea.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/24994"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oanagrecea.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21461"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oanagrecea.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21461"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oanagrecea.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21461"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}